It's those damn video games. If I put in half the time as I do with video games I would already be 50 members strong.Baby steps I guess.
Maybe you're more of a sergeant than a commander, or maybe more of a small team leader instead of an organizational head if that's more relatable. You're not going to get people blindly following you and sending you their daughters with their life savings tucked in their bra in any case with this attitude.
You are charismatic that's for sure. Seems you need a coach of sorts to parlay that into results though.